Hello~! I'm maddi, im 18 years old & in love with the most wonderful boy in the universe, and really, really cannot wait for everybody to be singing la~ ♥


Everyone who suffers from social anxiety needs a friend who will

  1. help them order food when it’s too scary
  2. walk with them through crowded places
  3. help them laugh it off when they make a mistake
  4. not get tired of answering “no, you’re not annoying, silly goose! You’re adorable and I love you” no matter how many times it’s needed

and if you’re that friend, bless u for being fab <3


I walked 15 km bc i was bored



I mean eyes come out of mouths all the time, right? (so glad I’m finally finished)


This is the rape joke:
My best friend was four years old the first time his father came into his room at midnight and tore out his throat. He still has days when I cannot hold him because the memory of a bleeding trachea haunts his doorway. He has not been home for the holidays in many years, but – even now – hands are seen as weapons.

This is the rape joke:
I have been told by more than twenty people that they have been raped. To all of them, I asked where the rapist was. From none of them, I heard ‘jail.’

This is the rape joke:
Once my brother told me that I was so ugly, I would be a virgin forever. Unless someone raped me. But even they wouldn’t come back for seconds.

This is the rape joke:
I believed him.

This is the rape joke:
I now look at every woman on the street and wonder if the space between her legs is a crime scene, surrounded by ripped caution tape. The statistics tell me that this is so common that I will never be in a room that does not contain a survivor. Not even if I am in that room alone.

This is the rape joke:
I was thirteen years old, and he was supposed to be just a friend.

This is the rape joke:
When his older brother came home, the boy pulled away. He wiped the tears from my face and said ‘we should do this again some time.’

This is the rape joke:
When I finally told my parents, they asked what I had been wearing.

This is the rape joke:
I had been wearing my innocence. My trust. I had worn the love I held for humanity and expected to be treated well. I had never been taught that I would be that girl, the one who keeps a mine of secrets between her legs – that girl was the slut. I wasn’t supposed to be breakable.
What had I been wearing? I wore the rape joke, then I became it.

This is the Rape Joke | d.a.s

After Lora Mathis’s poem “the Rape Joke

(via oliviasbenson)


been seeing a lot of posts lately along the lines of ‘don’t treat trans n queer identities like trends!’ implying that people who choose to be trans or queer is a bad thing lmao please stop

people who choose to be trans or queer are just as valid as people who do not have a choice, please remember that

seeing people exploring their gender and sexuality is a good thing! please don’t be a turd


**PLEASE NOTE that this giveaway is for transgender/non-binary individuals only, and that it is not open for cisgender participants! (However, feel free to signal boost for your trans/nb followers!)**

Hello friends!! I am going to be doing a giveaway!! Huzzah!! 

What am I going to give you? WELL, that’s up to you! You will be able to win your choice of:




I will be choosing FOUR winners overall, and all four can choose which of the following they would like! I know that there are a million factors involved when transitioning, so hopefully this is a tiny step in making you feel more comfortable!

Here are some rules:

  • You must be comfortable giving out an address for shipping purposes.
  • Ask box must be open, or fan mail enabled.
  • Reblogs and likes both count.
  • You do NOT have to be following me, but if you do I’ll add another $10.00 to spend on anything else listed above.
  • I will cover shipping WORLDWIDE, so no worries about where you live!

This giveaway will end on October 3rd, 2014 at 4:00pm EST!!

Good luck! I love you all!





actually speaking of trans issues if anyone has any tips about buying pants for dfabs with huge hips that’d be great too

if i look up ftm fashion i just get 500 pages about binding tips and if i look up ftm pants i just get 500 pages about shoving socks…



Луиза Гельдерблум (Louise Gelderblom) http://www.louisegelderblom.com

Listening to Louise’s interview on the potters cast. Look it up, she’s fantastic!